Most of us learn about a very narrow version of sex that feels great for men but tends to leave women's pleasure out of the picture. Our culture doesn't spend much time talking about vaginas or female pleasure, so even women themselves are sometimes uncertain about how their parts work, what feels good in bed, and how to have orgasms during sex. Here are some tried-and-trued ways to make sex better for her, straight from a sex therapist. To make sex better for women, create an environment where she knows she has time to focus and relax. Remove all distractions and responsibilities, including work, children, TV, and any daily errands.