And how often did that first time meet your expectations? You should know: 1. What kind of contraception will be used. What would you do in the event of a pregnancy. For first-time sex with someone new, you need to work out all the kinks. Tease and question her, lightly.

But obviously things don't always go so smoothly. We were tired but they wanted to go down to the bar to get drinks. They were gone for about an hour and a half. They unfortunately came back while we were doing the lazy doggie under the covers and his mom leaped onto the bed on top of us.

The topic of sexual consent seems to be in the news on a daily basis, especially since MeToo went viral one year ago. From posters to podcasts, there are endless resources promoting the importance of getting and giving explicit consent. In principle, these are good messages. But my research with more than young people aged 13 to 25 indicates that they understand the importance of consent, yet find it hard to put this advice into practice. They want opportunities to figure out how to manage desire and rejection.